Wednesday, September 22, 2010

The tranquility of Letting Go...

A simple question: What is two plus two? Yep you got it right its four. Another one, what’s four plus twenty-eight? Wrong! Its 32! Or did you get it right? You may be finding these questions stupid and a waste of time. After all these so-called “problems” are meant for kids’ right?
Wouldn’t it be a lot easier if problems in life would be as simple as this?
Alas problems in life are not as simple as additional problems in Mathematics. Often there aren’t any solutions to them. Just when you begin to think how depressing this can get here’s a life saver for you. It is said that the happiest people don’t necessarily have the best in life; they just make the best out of what they get in life.
How true is this verdict?
Can you just make the most out of everything you get and then be the happiest person in this world? Wrong!
Guess what, it’s even easier than that.
Life is no rocket science. Every one’s life has a purpose. It’s just that sometimes we’re so busy finding our real purpose in life that we forget what should be our main focus: our life!
Life is like a game of snakes. Remember the game snakes which we play on our phone. Yea life is just like that. When we start off with the game it seems easy as the score is also undersized but as we got stage by stage the game gets tougher and tougher; the number of obstacles also doubles up…In life too when we’re kids the biggest problems in our life was restrained to Mathematics. It’s today in life when we’re faced with all these complications we tend to feel that back then even Mathematics was way better. Then again we get frustrated and find ourselves longing to be young again. We begin to feel that now since we can’t go back our life is doomed and the only option left with us is to live our lives hand to mouth. Then we wait for the day when it will all be over. We lose interest in life and soon it affects our health. We spend lakhs and lakhs of rupees on doctors to get our healthy life back. And then when we’re finally okay we go back to square one! Read back, doesn’t this sound depressing already?
Then why put yourself through all this. Just remember one thing in life, there is no such thing as a problem. So you don’t even have to solve anything. Destiny is the sole factor that has the main controls of your life. All you have to do is submit your life to destiny because it’s your best friend and even when it seems hard it’s actually favoring you and no other. So stop mortifying yourself by letting hurdles put you down. Life has plenty much more in store for you. So keep walking ahead. Keep the lessons life has thought you close to your heart so that you don’t make the same mistakes over and over again. But even if you still do, who cares!
Never hurt some one on purpose, have many friends but show your true self to only a few. Trust people. They are harmless creatures. Learn to forgive. This is the hardest of them all. However unless you forgive it is impossible to let go of the evils of odium, hurt and suffering. Laugh like a child. Sing like an insane person. Dance like your going to break the dance floor. When you’re hurt, cry like a baby. Travel to different places, meet new people, taste the new item on the menu. Fall in love. Even if it fails don’t be afraid to fall in love again. Bitch about your gluttonous colleague. Run on the treadmill with a mouth full on chocolate. Reach late to work and get fired by your boss for that. Then try making creative excuses to save your ass. Pray to God. Thank God for everything and everything and everyone in your life. Thank God for you know that your life‘s going to get better and better with each passing day. Tell your family and friends how much you love them. Take pictures. Hum nursery rhymes. Play with babies. Feed strays. Mess up your own house and then clean it back again.
This is life and you get it just once. Why die with a feeling you’ve lived it less.

So let mathematics be the only problem in your life. Who got the time for anything else; after all you got a life to live!